RAYMO’S RAMBLINGS – GLIMPSE INTO GRANDPA’S LIFE

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GLIMPSE INTO GRANDPA’S LIFE

It was last winter at a basketball game that someone first mentioned to me that I should write a blog. Why should I write a blog? I asked her.  She said to me, how she enjoys following me on Facebook and all the different things and events that I do. It’s just fun to see what you’re up too and where you are.

I explained to her, that it is because of my job at the radio station that I get to meet many people and do so many different things. I finished telling her that I am not a writer, that I am a radio guy, I talk! I was flattered by the fact that someone was interested in what I was doing. It was a few weeks later that another person had said almost the same thing to me. When that happened I went home and googled ‘Blogging’.

I knew nothing about blogging, so I was surprised to find out just how big blogging is on the internet. Its huge. I do remember the movie “Julie & Julia” with Meryl Streep and Amy Adams. How the character played by Amy Adams “blogged” about making a recipe from Julia Childs cookbook and blogging about her experience every day.

Then it was like God confirmed to me that I should take up blogging when a third person mentioned it to me and encouraged me a lot to do this. So in April I wrote my first blog. Brittany Haugen was instrumental in getting me started in this adventure and helped me get things set up on the internet.  My wife Roxie is my editor. Both of them have assisted me greatly in this.

 I did struggle at first. You see, I am not a writer. My English is terrible. So kids if you’re reading this pay attention in English class. I decided to give it a trial run, because I really don’t need another thing to do.  I was only going to do this for a month or two. My plan was to do two blogs a week, Wednesday and Sunday.  

What happened in those two months of the trial period was shocking and amazing to me. I fell in love with writing a blog! I’m hooked! During the trial period, I received an email from a real writer, an author of books! She said in her email how much she enjoys reading my blogs, she encouraged me, she gave me some constructive criticisms on how to improve my writing. I was so excited about that email, I printed it out and have it in my office at work. That was in April of 2017.

But the most important thing I have come to realize in my blogging, is this. I have done around 60 blogs so far, and if you print them out and put them in a folder, you have a thick book. Which I have done. One evening I was looking over all my blogs that I have written and realized that I am writing about my life, my experiences in life. Detailed things about me. My inner most thoughts, things I believe in, people I meet. What I am about.

I thought to myself what a wonderful gift this is for my own grandchildren to have. For them to read after I am long gone. Even my great-great grandchildren to read about their grandfather that they never met. I would give anything to have something like this about my grandfather, who died when I was very young and didn’t really know him. But if he would have blogged, like I’m blogging. I would know what kind of person he was, what was important to him. That would be cool.

I mentioned this to my son Brandon about a month ago, and for my 60th birthday he handed me a book. A book with all my blogs in it. I cried.

It looks so professional, like I’m a real writer. The blue cover simply says Raymo’s Rambling by Paul Raymo and on the inside of the cover it says:

Raymo’s Ramblings: A glimpse into the life of Paul Raymo

Now I blog for my grandchildren and my great grandchildren and my great great grandchildren.

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RAYMO’S RAMBLINGS – SPECIAL BIRTHDAY

 

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SPECIAL BIRTHDAY

When I was growing up at home, my mother always made it a big deal when it was your birthday. She made it a very special day for you. Mom made the best and biggest birthday cakes. You received lots of birthday presents, and I remember you could invite as many friends as you wanted to your birthday party! Now as an adult, I still look forward to my birthday with anticipation. I look forward to celebrating with family and friends.

Even though I was dreading turning 60 Sunday, I was still looking forward to celebrating my birthday with my family and friends. And celebrate I did, actually for three days! It all started at work on Friday, we always celebrate birthdays at work. Since my birthday fell on a Sunday, Kris ordered cupcakes from Isaiah Tuckett and we had a small party at work on Friday.

Facebook has become a place to wish your friends a Happy Birthday. So after Maynard posted our picture of our little celebration at work on Facebook Friday, people assumed it was my birthday Friday and the happy birthday greetings started coming in.

Saturday, Roxie and I attended Monroe Crossing at the Prairie Arts Center. I am not a big bluegrass listener or fan, but this group is a bunch of talented musicians. It’s fun to see them play their instruments. Lisa from Monroe Crossing got word from Maynard that I was turning 60 Sunday. So Lisa called me out of the audience and had me come up front as they sang happy birthday to me and the banjo player who was also celebrating a birthday. Then we were told since it’s your birthday we need to do the chicken dance. So the banjo player and I did the chicken dance as fast as we could.

Sunday we went to church, and Pastor Eric thought it was funny during the announcements to show a funny video regarding turning 60 years old. I will remember this Maynard and Pastor Eric!

After church was my favorite part of the day. My family gathered at our house to celebrate grandpa’s 60th birthday.  It helps when your best friend makes the best ribs around. We got a roaster full of ribs from Dan Tuckett, and his son Isaiah made some more birthday cupcakes for me. We had a great lunch after church.

The grandkids couldn’t wait for grandpa to open his presents. They all gathered around me as I opened some amazing presents. My grandson Zane made me an awesome birthday card. Very colorful card, with him practicing cursive, and it even had a math equation for me to figure out. Zane is already a math whiz at 8 years old, and had me figure out what the square root is to make 60 years old, or something like that.  I didn’t know how to do that. He thought it was funny.

I received a bright Hawaiian shirt for our trip to Hawaii coming up in October. My granddaughter Adelyn made me a bracelet out of rubber bands. My granddaughter Gretta gave me a long hug and told me she loved me.

My son Brandon took all my blogs that I have written this year and made it into a book. I will blog about that book on Wednesday. I have a story to tell why he made my blogs into a book. So something to look forward to on Wednesday.

Celebrating birthdays are special times. I thank all my family and friends that have wished me a happy birthday! I feel the love.

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RAYMO’S RAMBLINGS – SUNDAY IS COMING

 

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SUNDAY IS COMING

I’m giving everyone a heads up. Sunday is a big day for me. 

 I will be 60 years old this Sunday. I am not handling thinking about turning sixty very well. What is it about milestone birthdays? 20, 30, 40, 50 years old. I consider myself a pretty stable person. I know some of you will disagree with that statement. 

 I can handle just about anything that is thrown at me. I handle stressful situations well. When bad or terrible things happen to me I think I handle them as good as anybody would. I think I’m a real positive person, I look at the good in situations. It takes a lot for me to get upset. I don’t get flustered very often. I don’t worry.

But this turning 60 on Sunday is messing me up. I don’t know what it is about milestone birthdays with me. I remember turning 20, 30, 40, and 50 years old, and I’m having the same feelings.

I know most of you take big number birthdays in stride, no big deal. I can hear some of you saying “it’s only a number” “life goes on” “grow up” and that’s ok.

 I do NOT want to be 60! But it’s better than the alternative I guess.

I am a 20-year-old, stuck in a 60-year-old body. My mind says I’m 20, but my body has been telling me I am 60. Heart issues have made me think about enjoying life more. Broadcasting high school sports and hanging around high school students over the years have really helped me feel young. I like that.

I just calculated how many days it will be since I was born and on Sunday it will be 21,801 days. Not including the 9 months I was in my mother’s womb. So a really good guess is that my heart has been beating over 22,000 days come Sunday. That’s a long time. In 1957 Dwight Eisenhower was President. Number one song in America was All Shook Up by Elvis and a gallon of gas was 24 cents. The average household income $5500. Things have changed in 60 years. 

So Sunday will come and go. I’ll spend it with family and friends and “celebrate”.  Come Monday I will be just fine. I just laughed, because my last blog was titled “Enjoying Life” which I am. But now I blog about how I have anxiety about turning 60…Life is sure funny.

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RAYMO’S RAMBLINGS – ENJOYING LIFE

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ENJOYING LIFE

Sitting at my computer Sunday evening and just thinking about how much I really enjoy life! I am blessed to have a loving family and many friends that I love. That got me thinking about the last three days and all the events that I was involved in and the many people that I crossed paths with that make my life full.

It all began on Friday as I boarded a Southwest coach bus at LQPV high school to ride down to New Ulm with the football team. The Eagles played the Greyhounds from New Ulm Cathedral for the first time in school history. I sat up front with head coach Tony Smith and coach Josh Benson. The ride down coach Smith popped in the movie The Titans. One of my favorite movies, which I have seen many times. Sitting in my comfortable seat and visiting with the coaches and watching the movie for two hours was enjoyable.

Going to New Ulm was special for me as well. I spent my first thirteen years of my life growing up in New Ulm before moving to Madison. We arrived at New Ulm Cathedral high school and as the team got ready and prepared to play football. I walked around the Catholic high school. I went to catholic schools in New Ulm growing up and so it brought back many memories walking down the hallways and looking into the classrooms, walking through the gym. It still looked like the 60’s but was a well maintained building.  

We boarded the bus again and drove the 7 or 8 blocks to the football field. It’s the same football field my dad took my brother Greg and me to watch the New Ulm Eagles play high school football in the late 60’s. I climbed the ladder to the tall press box to broadcast the game. What a football game it was. The Eagles played great and won on a field goal by Isaac Gerdes. That made for a very fun ride home, arriving back at LQPV around 12:45am. Friday was so much fun and I enjoyed every minute. Life is good!

Up early Saturday morning to do the Coaches Show on the radio. Then left for the cities around ten for my daughter’s bridal shower in Maple Grove. Two of my sons and I helped get the room ready for the shower with our wives, then left and watched the Gopher football game in their motel room in downtown Minneapolis. After the bridal shower was over we visited with family and friends for a while. Family is everything and sometimes I need to remind myself that I need to spend more time with my family. Love my grandkids to death, and enjoy every moment with all of them.

Roxie and I headed back to Madison, I dropped her off at home around 8pm and headed to Appleton for Applefest festivities Saturday evening. The fireworks display in Appleton Saturday night was the best I have ever seen. It was amazing!

Saturday was a whirlwind, but so much fun and enjoyed every minute. Life is good!

Sunday, a full day of Applefest events. I attended the showing of The Spirit of Appleton play at the 52 wing. I played Governor Elmer Benson, who was from Appleton, in the play. The Spirit of Appleton was produced into a movie for the screen. It was weird seeing myself on the big screen and my name in the credits at the end of the movie.

Later, I went down to the fairgrounds and enjoyed the car show and all the vendors. My favorite Applefest event is the parade. It was a beautiful day, and so many people along the parade route. I pull the Miss Madison float and enjoyed throwing candy to the children and some adults.

After the parade I headed back down to the fairgrounds for a pie and ice cream social and sweepstakes drawing. The Chuck Brown Building was full of people, a great turnout. The chamber served the pie and ice cream and I was the MC, along with the Miss Appleton royalty. Sweepstakes winners were announced and the cleanup began.

I was home by 6:30 to watch The Vietnam War on PBS, the first part was about local Vietnam veterans telling of their experiences in the war. I enjoyed listening to two friends of mine that were in the piece.

Sunday ended with me thinking of how much I love life! How much I enjoy living this life God has given me. I’m so thankful for my family and my friends that make this journey enjoyable. Life is good!

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RAYMO’S RAMBLINGS – THANK A VIETNAM VET TODAY

 

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THANK A VIETNAM VET TODAY

I attended the screening of the PBS documentary (The Vietnam War) by Ken Burns at SMSU in Marshall recently. This documentary will be broadcasted on PBS stations across the country starting this Sunday the 17th.  I must say I am glad I went to this powerful documentary and participated in the small group discussion.

Many Vietnam veterans were in attendance. After viewing what the 10-part documentary is going to cover, we broke into groups with a facilitator at each table. I will admit I was going to leave after the hour long video because I had a long drive home. It was 8pm and I was tired, but Amanda from Pioneer television encouraged me to stay and take part in the discussion with the Vietnam veterans. I was very glad that I chose to stay.

I was at a table with three veterans. Three people who had fathers in the Vietnam war. None of us knew each other.  The facilitator, who was a veteran from Iraq and Afghanistan, was about 30 years old and still in the marines. One gentleman was a graduate of West Point. Charles Hettling from Minneota was also there. I had not met Charles, but had heard of him and knew he and his brother started the Vietnam War museum in Minneota. Also he was a part of the short documentary that was presented earlier that night.

The discussion started as we went around the table to share how the Vietnam war had affected our lives. I was there to observe because I serve on the board of directors at Pioneer Public Television.

 What transpired for the next hour around that table I will never forget. It was very powerful. The three veterans and three women around the table shed tears as they talked about the traumatic events that happened in their lives as the result of the Vietnam war. From verbal and physical abuse, suicidal thoughts, alcohol and drugs. I listened as each of them shared how their family was affected by what the veteran had experienced. There was a lot of pain and hurt.

 Much of the discussion dealt with PTSD and what we as a society have learned about it over the years. I learned that after the Civil War it was called “irritable heart”. During WWI it was labeled “shell shock” WWII “battle fatigue”, The Korean and Vietnam Wars DSM-I (Diagnostic & Statistical Manual of Mental Disturbance) and, in 1980, the term changed to PTSD.

The Vietnam vets shared how they were not welcomed back home. They hid their uniform, and they avoided talking about their experiences in Vietnam. They also talked about the healing that has happened in their lives. Charles, for example, has made over 30 trips back to Vietnam and has made lifelong friends with some Viet Cong.

After the discussion ended, I shook each of their hands and thanked them for their service. Its people like this that have made this country great. I would highly encourage everyone to attend the next screening at the Appleton VFW Friday Sept 15th at 1pm.

 

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